If a child is 2 years old, started trying to become independent, and then begin the parents so the child's independence through its formative years during adolescence and the challenge. Parents should take advantage of a period of growth for the child to be an intelligent response from your child's apparent stubbornness, rebellion, and the annoying behavior.
Try not to overload the child, but you should review their rebellion, is considered as a symptom of good health of the child after anotherMethods, to be autonomous. As the child grows and develops, from about 2 years and in different periods of intermittent, it will seek to identify, to launch their will and their "power" on people who try to show - ". I'm the boss"
If you try to overwhelm the child, it will respond by either fighting or fleeing from the output. In other words, he would accept the child and let you be the boss or fight with all their might, trying to prove that he / she is the boss. If you are a parent,consider this a positive attitude in the process of growth and let the child feels that the situation is the boss, you're building a relationship, the power, you are giving as well as the child.
You should avoid a power struggle in the first place, and not fight. If you ask the child to go to bed, the child might say no. He came the first symptom is out of the game. If it is argued that one should try to sleep, the situation is bad, but if you develop aBox where it says you're wearing, maybe on the head and tickles her to the bed, take the child immediately, and this is the end of the battle.
After avoiding the fight, you should make decisions on place the order. Even a 18-month-old child may refuse to get the diaper changed, and if you are wondering if they can go in the other room and change his diaper, could yield - in other words, the child a choice, andwill behave. If the choice had not given the freedom allows the child, it would still accept and then leave the choice to be open, and not an alternative to punishment.
Do not assume you should lose and another win in this power struggle. Instead of creating a situation where both will feel they have won, and each of you, when you got what you want to be happy. This is necessary to find a middle ground. Do not just help the children by the positiveto the wishes of the child, but also see that the child will not go away with the feeling that you have to lose you. No parent wants to take 'no' from their children. But it would be better to treat a child 'no' disagreement as a lack of respect from your child.
If a child feels he has no power, will seek revenge. Revenge, if the child is 2 years, is something like the withdrawal to be paid in food, but if the child became a teenager by the throat, in the form of itsResorting to drugs or pregnancy. Your child's future can be sure when your child to become properly established to enable.
